As I write this, I’m watching your sweet face relaxed in sleep, as small breathes puff past your little lips, I’m awed, amazed and terrified at the fact you’re coming up to two years old, full of boundless energy, wonder and joy, exploring the garden with your tiny hands and curious heart daily. You make my world brighter with your laughter and curiosity. There’s so much I want you to know, some thoughts about life, love, faith, and the beauty of the simple things, so you can carry them with you wherever you go.
Firstly, let’s talk about love. Never forget that I love you to the moon and back again! Even more on your difficult days! Especially on your difficult days, Every day no matter what! Love is the most powerful thing in this world. It’s not just something you feel—it’s something you show through kindness, patience, and forgiveness. Love yourself as much as you love others. You deserve it! You will have moments when you wonder if you’re enough or if you’re deserving of love. In those moments, I want you to remember this: You are deeply loved just as you are, by your family, by the world, and by God. Love is the greatest thing you’ll ever give or receive. Love deeply and without fear. There will be times when it’s hard—when your heart feels heavy—but don’t let those moments close you off. Love will always find a way to heal you if you let it.
Have faith. Faith in yourself, in others, and in the world. Not everything will go the way you hope, and sometimes, life will feel unfair and scary. In those moments, hold on to the belief that better days are coming and that there is a lesson in every moment. Faith is like the stars—hidden by the clouds but always there. Life won’t always be easy. Sometimes you’ll feel lost or unsure, but that’s when faith comes in. Faith is trusting that even in the hardest times, you are never alone. There is a bigger plan at work, even when you can’t see it. Whenever you feel overwhelmed, look to the sky. As long as you can see the sun by day and the moon by night, you’ll know you are never truly alone. These celestial companions are a reminder that peace, awareness, presence, light and love are always with you. You are enough, just as you are. There will be moments when you doubt yourself or wonder if you’re good enough. I promise you, you are. Don’t look to others to define your worth; it’s already within you. Be kind to yourself and let that kindness shine on others too.
Take your time! Never rush through life. Childhood is a gift, filled with moments that seem ordinary now but will be treasures when you’re older. Live in the present moment, Chase butterflies, laugh at silly jokes, dance and sing like no one’s watching and keep finding joy in the simple magic of the world around you, appreciate the small things: the feeling of sunshine on your face, the sound of leaves rustling in the wind, and the way the rain makes the earth smell fresh and alive after a storm. These simple joys will remind you, even in the toughest times, that life is beautiful. You will face challenges, my love. There will be days when you feel afraid or unsure. But remember this: You are braver and stronger than you know. You can do hard things, and even when you stumble, you’ll learn and grow. Don’t let fear hold you back from trying or dreaming big. Faith is the antidote to fear, so lean on it whenever you need to
When I watch you explore the world around you, I am reminded of how connected we are to the earth. Your tiny hands reach for flowers, your eyes light up at the sight of a bird, and your laughter fills the air as you chase after butterflies. It’s beautiful to see how naturally you understand what so many of us forget—that we are all a part of nature, and nature is a part of us. I want to tell you a secret: this world is alive with wonders, and every single creature plays its part. From the tiniest ant building its home to the majestic trees reaching for the sky, everything is connected. Even the honeybees, small as they are, carry a great responsibility—pollinating the plants that give us food, flowers, and beauty. Without them, the world would be a lonelier, emptier place. As you grow, I hope you’ll stay in sync with nature. Listen to the wind as it whispers through the trees. Feel the rhythm of the seasons as they change. Watch the way the sun rises each morning and sets each evening, painting the sky in colors no artist could ever match around the face of the man in the moon. These things remind us of the cycles of life—of beginnings and endings, of rest and renewal.
The earth gives us so much, my love. It gives us the air we breathe, the food we eat, the water we drink. It provides us with beauty and shelter, and it teaches us lessons about patience, resilience, and balance. Because of this, we have a responsibility to care for it, just as it cares for us. Remember, giving back to the earth doesn’t have to be something big or complicated. It can be as simple as planting a tree, cleaning up a park, or letting the wildflowers grow so the bees and butterflies can thrive. When you care for the earth, you’re not just helping plants and animals—you’re helping yourself and everyone who shares this planet with you. Always walk gently on the earth, and remember that every living thing has a purpose. The ants, the worms, the trees, the rivers, the birds—they are all part of this great web of life. When you honor and protect them, you honour and protect yourself, because we are all connected.
When you feel small or insignificant, like you don’t matter in the grand scheme of things, think of those honeybees again. They may be tiny, but they are essential. You are, too. Your actions, no matter how small, can ripple out and make the world a better place. When life feels confusing or heavy, I want you to go outside. Stand barefoot in the grass or the ocean, sit under a tree, feel the sun on your face and the water lapping at your feet, or listen to the birds as the wind brushes through the green leaves. Nature has a way of bringing clarity and peace to a restless heart. There is something sacred about feeling the wind on your face or hearing the rustle of leaves—it’s a gentle reminder that life goes on and that you are part of something much bigger than yourself. So go outside as often as you can. Breathe in the fresh air, feel the earth beneath your feet, and take time to notice the little things—the buzzing of bees, the rustling of leaves, the way the clouds drift lazily across the sky. These are life’s quiet miracles, and they’re always there, waiting for you to notice.
Family is your foundation. Our ancestors lived so we could thrive. We are your first home, your safe place, and your constant support. Never forget to cherish these moments with us—playing, laughing, and simply being together. One day, you’ll look back and realise that these simple moments were some of the most precious. Love your family fiercely, and don’t take these connections for granted. Gratitude is a secret key to happiness. When life gets complicated, focus on the simple blessings: a warm hug, a shared meal, the smell of rain, or the feeling of the sun on your face. These little things will ground you and remind you of the beauty in the everyday.
You will face challenges, my love. There will be days when you feel afraid or unsure. But remember this: You are braver and stronger than you know. You can do hard things, and even when you stumble, you’ll learn and grow. Don’t let fear hold you back from trying or dreaming big. Faith is the antidote to fear, so lean on it whenever you need to. As you grow, the world will tell you who to be or what to do. Always listen to your own heart first. God has given you unique gifts, and your path is yours to walk. Never be afraid to stand out, to speak your truth, or to follow what makes your soul light up. Always stand up for the little guy and lead with a gentle soul and a kind heart
Finally, my sweet boy, never stop being curious. Or being yourself unapologetically. Keep asking questions and seeking answers. The world is a beautiful, mysterious place, and there is so much to explore. Find joy in the journey and don’t rush through life. Every season has its gifts, so take your time and savor them. You are my greatest joy, my biggest blessing, and my truest inspiration. Wherever life takes you, remember that you are deeply loved by Daddy and I, by your family, and by the Creator of this vast and beautiful universe. You are never alone, my son—not when you can feel the sun, see the moon, and hear the whispers of the world around you.
With all my love,
Muma
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